
The process begins with a confidential discussion about your situation.
This initial conversation provides an opportunity to:
- Explain how mediation works.
- Discuss whether mediation is suitable for your circumstances.
- Answer any questions you may have.
- Explain the next steps.
How Mediation Works
A Structured, Confidential and Impartial Process
Every dispute is different, but the mediation process at MK Mediation follows a structured approach designed to help everyone involved communicate openly, explore possible solutions and work towards a mutually acceptable outcome.
Throughout the process, MK Mediation remains completely impartial. Mediation is voluntary, confidential and focused on helping people find practical solutions in a safe and respectful environment.
Step 1 – Initial Enquiry
Step 2 – Preparation Before Mediation
Before the mediation session takes place, each party is invited to provide a brief summary of the dispute together with any relevant documentation. This is usually exchanged one to two weeks before the mediation, although timescales may vary depending on the urgency of the matter.
MK Mediation then speaks with each party individually to:
- Gain an understanding of the background to the dispute.
- Explain how the mediation day will be structured.
- Discuss confidentiality and the voluntary nature of mediation.
- Answer any questions before the session takes place
Step 3 – The Mediation Session
This includes:
- Explaining the mediation process.
- Confirming that the Agreement to Mediate has been signed.
- Establishing the ground rules.
- Ensuring everyone understands the confidential and impartial nature of mediation.
Each party is then given the opportunity to explain their perspective.
Where appropriate, this may take place in a joint session or separately, depending on the circumstances and the preferences of those involved.
Step 4 – Private Discussions (Caucus Sessions)
During the mediation, the mediator will hold a series of confidential private meetings with each party.
These discussions allow participants to speak openly in a safe environment.
Information shared during these private meetings remains confidential and will only be shared with the other party if permission has been given.
The mediator will move between the parties throughout the day, helping explore possible options and working towards a resolution.
Step 5 – Reaching an Outcome
Towards the end of the mediation, the mediator will usually bring the parties together for a final discussion, whether or not an agreement has been reached.
If an agreement is reached, it can be recorded in writing. Where legal representatives are involved, they will usually prepare the agreement. If not, the mediator can assist the parties in recording what has been agreed. Once signed, the agreement becomes legally binding.
At MK Mediation, every mediation is guided by five key principles:
- Confidentiality – Information shared during mediation remains confidential unless permission is given to share it.
- Impartiality – The mediator does not take sides or decide who is right or wrong.
- Voluntary Participation – Mediation works best when everyone chooses to take part.
- Respect – Everyone has the opportunity to be heard in a safe and professional environment.
- Practical Solutions – The focus is on helping those involved explore realistic and workable outcomes.
Why Preparation Matters
At MK Mediation, preparation is an important part of the process. By taking time to understand the background to the dispute and review any relevant information before the mediation session, MK Mediation aims to ensure that the time spent in mediation is productive, focused and gives everyone the best opportunity to explore a resolution.
